The difficulty with communication is that someone has to always speak first.

I think it's pretty much agreed that it goes:
Open minded, GOOD. Judgemental, BAD.

But are are being too quick to judge judgement?

Perhaps judgement is not so much a snap decision, as an early warning and detection device.

If it's instantly clear that a person, place, or even a profession is not for you, is it better to ignore your better judgement, and read between the lines? Or should you judge a book by it's cover?

And are feelings just like the snow falling outside my window, piling up and waiting for someone or yourself to discard?

The thing is, there are some things people don't admit because they don't like they dont' like the way it sounds.

"I'm scared."
"I'm getting a divorce."
"I'm lonely."
"I'm not sure."


There is only one small step between enthusiasm and excessive optimism, and the better of me is preventing me from overstepping that border.

Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.